当别人一针见血地指出我们的缺陷时，让我们炸毛、全盘否认的，通常不是指责本身-我们对自己的毛病再清楚不过-而是那层包围在话语四周的气氛。我们心里明白对方说得对，只是受不了那过于严厉的语气，才无法把他们的批评真正听进去。We often operate ...

Right. And Feifei, when was the last time you were roped into something? Feifei Oh, I was roped into organising this birthday party. It's taken three full weekends. I think it's time to hear from our ...

在葬礼上要悲痛欲绝，在婚礼上要充满感动和希望，对待家人要热情洋溢，度假时要无忧无虑，但现实中，我们的感受不完全和外物刺激同步。为了生存，我们学会了隐藏，我们学会不去感受或流露出下意识产生的情绪。我们遵从内心的节奏，春去秋来而不受外界时空的干扰。Lif ...