I will never forget the most meaningful idea I embraced while sitting shiva for my mother, of blessed memory, who died suddenly more than 35 years ago. I had a notebook with me at almost all times.

Put such a picture of Lord Shiva in the north direction, in which he is in a calm and meditative posture or is sitting on the Nandi. Apart from this, you can also put such a picture of Shivji in ...