She explained that when she first saw the girl, who NeNe identified ... “He said ‘No!'” NeNe said. “And I was like ‘Okay, you have. Bye.’ And he went insane, screaming going crazy ...

(As NeNe said on The Breakfast Club, "I felt like if I was there, they would have to put certain girls around me. All of those girls who are there now, I don’t know who they are.") However ...

"If somebody is sitting here right now to tell you that they are not terrified, they are lying," Porsha Williams said of NeNe Leakes alleged ... battle at this year's "Bye Wig" party.