Antony says, “There is nothing ‘mere’ about loss. Grief is a trial by fire, so, you sort of go beyond the grief into a new world where the sentimental gives way to whole, real people as they ...

But after all these years, I’m starting to wonder if this is going anywhere or if I’m wasting my time. Should I hold on to the hope that something romantic will develop, or is it time to give up and ...

Should I hold on to the hope that something romantic will develop, or is it time to give up and move on? — In Limbo Dear Limbo: It sounds like you've been in emotional limbo with this man for years.